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Dark Empathy

Empathy is not always benign. When high cognitive empathy combines with dark triad traits, the result may be the “perfect manipulator” profile described in recent research.

Primary source: Heym, N., Kibowski, F., Bloxsom, C. A., Blanchard, A., Harper, A., Wallace, L., Firth, J., & Sumich, A. (2021). The Dark Empath: Characterising dark traits in the presence of empathy. Personality and Individual Differences, 169, 110172. doi:10.1016/j.paid.2020.110172.

The dark empath profile

Heym and colleagues conducted a latent profile analysis on more than 990 participants, measuring dark triad traits (narcissism, Machiavellianism, psychopathy) alongside cognitive and affective empathy. They identified four profiles, including a previously underexamined group they labelled “Dark Empaths.”

Dark empaths scored above average on dark triad traits and also above average on both cognitive and affective empathy. This contrasts with the classical “Dark Triad” profile, which is typically characterised by low affective empathy alongside the high dark traits.

The four profiles in the Heym study

ProfileDark traitsCognitive empathyAffective empathy
TypicalLow to averageAverageAverage
EmpathLowHighHigh
Dark TriadHighAverageLow
Dark EmpathHighHighHigh

What it may mean in practice

Heym and colleagues found that dark empaths scored higher than classic dark triads on indirect aggression (rumour spreading, social manipulation) and reported being more agreeable on the surface. They were also more prone to internalised distress, including depressed mood and anxiety, possibly reflecting awareness of the disconnect between their empathic perception and their dark trait behaviour.

The practical takeaway: empathy is not a moral category. High empathy alone does not guarantee benevolent intent. What predicts pro-social behaviour is the combination of empathy with values, compassion, and behaviour, not empathy in isolation.

Caveats

The dark empath construct is relatively new and has not yet accumulated the replication base of the dark triad itself. Subsequent studies have generally supported the existence of this profile but disagree on its exact prevalence and behavioural consequences. The construct should be treated as descriptively useful but not yet clinically established.

Importantly, this is not a diagnostic label. Pop-psychology articles that suggest readers should “watch out for dark empaths” in their lives may overreach. The pattern is a research finding about score profiles on self-report measures, not a clinical category.

If you suspect a relationship is harmful or manipulative, the relevant test is the impact on you, not whether the other person fits a particular personality label. A licensed therapist can help you think through this. If you are in danger, contact a domestic abuse helpline or emergency services.

Updated 2026-04-27